3 “secrets” to being absolutely Invincible

No one talks about this, but sometimes even when our dreams are coming true, and we're accomplishing the things we've been working towards, it can feel scary, difficult, and overwhelming. 

Naturally to come into a new phase, you have to be someone you've never been - and it's actually NORMAL for your body to feel anxiety around this transformation.

 I see it consistently with my clients - after we start working together, sometimes things look like they're getting worse, but it's simply the inevitable purge of the parts of your current reality that must “die” to create space for your new reality.  

Luckily, we know how to move through this and when you tune into your body above all else, it will guide you seemingly effortlessly through the waves. 

I should know…I recently completed a round of my mini course ATTRACTIVE AF in 15 Days, and my life has COMPLETELY changed in practically every way (may spill the details on this later ;) ) because I allowed my body to release the things that were holding me back and support me to a new level.  It was scary AND exciting. 

If you haven't been tuning into yourself, this is a powerful time (writing this during eclipse season Autumn 2024: cycles are ENDING, and intensely for some of us).  The kosmos is conspiring to bring you everything you desire, IF you intentionally choose it.  

But in the meantime, here's 3 things I hold close when I'm questioning if it would actually be easier to quit it all and hide forever…these truths will help you intentionally choose to move closer toward your greatness.

THIS is actually where the magic happens! 

3 Truths to Help You Through Absolutely Anything

(proven by nature)

1.Everything comes in waves

This, too, shall pass.  Whether it's happy, or sad.  So enjoy the good times when they're good BE PRESENT, because it will pass.  And when it feels hard, look forward to the the day it will get to be good again.  Everything is temporary, even life, and this is what makes it so so precious.

 

2. Struggle IS necessary 

Don't get it twisted - SUFFERING is optional.  But struggle creates meaning for the beautiful things.  

No one got to the glorious summit of a mountain without an incline and a scramble. 

Did you know that a butterfly MUST struggle out of the chrysalis in order to build the strength to use her wings?  They have studied butterflies who received help out of the chrysalis to make it easier, and they didn't survive because they hadn't built the skills NEEDED for this new embodiment. 

In order for a seed to grow, it has to be put in a dark place, and it has to be watered to bring it to its BREAK, where it then SETS ROOTS, and then come the fruits of labor.

Childbirth is traumatic for both the baby and the mother, yet it's new LIFE. 

 There is no “good” or “bad” but the duality of everything. If you want a silver lining, it has to rain. Seasons have to change to keep the balance of the earth.

It's a law of physics: “everything has an equal and opposite reaction”. 

The more we sit with the deep discomfort, the greater the reward on the other side. It's simply the laws of life.

When we remember this is all part of the process, we can release our judgments of the situation and just better solidify who we WANT to be.  In fact, the struggle period can be quite romantic - remember this time - it's when “you had no idea how good it was going to get” 

 

(Of course if you find yourself in constant struggle, it might be time to shift something you're doing, which again proves…struggle is necessary to bring us to the next level)

 

3. In our darkest times, we are primed for a miracle 

“It's always darkest before the dawn”, when it feels SO dismal, you're naturally on the brink of a miracle. We cannot see light without darkness.  Often we get to the point where we've fought so hard, we SURRENDER finally.  And THEN comes in the miracle.  We have to allow space.  We have to rest, and we have to become ok with the darkness, because that's when we allow space for miracles to happen, for things to work out BETTER than we imagined.  Miracles happen most beautifully from a state of desperation.  Is it rock bottom, or the launch pad to your miracle?

  

Which of these truths spoke to you the most?

If you'd like a few tangible tools to help you move through inevitable anxiety through the waves of life, check out my FREE Masterclass: How to Feel Anxiety Without Getting Anxious.

Here for your questions and happy to guide you.  

You’ve got this!

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